When Pam gets totally wasted at the Dundies and kisses Jim. I have no doubt that Pam wanted to do that a long time and may have been partly why she was drinking so much... to get up her nerve. Give the girls an ugly fight with her oafish fiance, attention of a great guy and him taking care of you, the delight of a new award and a lot of alcohol. FTR, I would have kissed Jim Halpert stone cold sober in front of my husband and it would NOT bave been chaste like Pam's! The two are incredible!